David Deangelo is a somewhat forgotten pick up artist nowadays, I have the impression, but one thing that definitely made a lasting impression on me, was his list with 77 laws of success with Women and Dating. You may hate the fact that certain eating habits make you fat, but if you want to be thin, you’ll have to go through the trouble to adopt a healthy diet, and so on and so on. And challenge her to be better, and expect the same in return. Women never take things at face value and use chick logic to figure things out.
I haven’t read the list in years, and since I’m looking for a better set of rules to live my life, I thought I should examine them again. Does anyone even use the term ‘pick up artist’ anymore? It’s good that this is number one on the list, because it’s vital. Just pay attention to small details and let them be impressed with it.
You could advocate a different economic system on the side though. If you take responsibility for what happens to you, you’ll feel more free, more empowered and you’ll find yourself more in the ‘now’ and less hooked on ‘might have beens’. You don’t have to get external validation for anything. Still, it doesn’t hurt to develop a style that is really you. I have been looking for you for a while.) Be confident, learn the right eye contact. Women mostly do something like ‘shit tests’, when they sense you are full of… It’s true women are turned on by some things you do and turned of by some other things you may do, and they are on the look-out for things that turn them on, but they are not concocting any shit tests, if you are clear about your intentions and confident and challenging and respectful, you won’t notice much shit testing. If you’ve come on too strong, all you can do is take a step back. Learn how to make your conversations interesting for women.
David De Angelo is your average guy who’s figured out what genuinely works with women — no tricks, no games, no manipulation.