The problem is that in many Indian families, many may still believe love comes after marriage.
This is of course due to the arranged marriage which is prevalent among many segments of Indian society regardless of geography.
If you're christian this can sometimes leave you at odd ends as some Natives practice a radically different spirituality if they're completely immersed in the culture.
I'm a Native guy and I like white women but the biggest issue I always have when I want to get to know a white woman or ask her out is whether or not she'll be cool about my culture.
Of course, not everything can be breached ahead of time.
That is one reason why many American programs broach the hard choices people make and situations that arise when one partner says “I love you” and the other isn’t ready to say it yet.Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world If Indian women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.